Do I have to become a member to attend?

Yes! Menages is a private members only club.  Membership Applications to join are processed in person, at the club, while we are open. The clubs membership is limited to only those who are interested in the "lifestyle". The club is not open to the public in any way and the clubs premises are only used for the furtherance of the club itself.

 

What can I expect on my first visit?

Most of our members have been introduced to the club by other members. This helps us maitain our upscale, high quality membership that we are known for. A lot of new members come with the people that first told them about the club, which is a great way to be introduced to the club. Our Club Host will go over the club rules and procedures, show you the layout and answer any questions you may have.  We also have couples that help newcomers get aquainted. The Club Hostess can introduce you to these people if you would like. There is absolutely no pressure on you or anybody else. We are a classy nightclub with a twist!

 

What sort of people will I run into?

People who want to meet other people who are into, or who are curious about the "lifestyle". Generally most people are polite, mature, fun loving and are wanting to meet you. If you want to sit back quietly and just relax, nobody is going to bother you, or make you feel out of place. Then again if you are outgoing and want to meet others, just walk up to them, introduce yourself and you are socializing!

 

Why explore the "lifestyle"?

Contrary to popular belief, couples do not become involved in the "lifestyle" out of boredom but rather out of a sense of adventure and curiosity. Basically, couples who already enjoy a good relationship just want to add another dimension to their relationship. It is the shared experience and adventure together that appeals.

 

What's in it for singles?

Essentially, for the same benefits that couples are involved. For the single female, there is a discovery that it is more honest. Also the club is a much safer enviroment and way less pressure than any ordinary nightclub or bar.

 

Should everyone consider joining?

Absolutely no! With much to recommend about the lifestyle, like so many other things in life, it is not for everyone. If socializing in an open atmosphere, amoungst consenting adults poses a threat to you, becoming a member would not be advised.

 

Is the club all the fun that my friends say?

You bet it is! It is very exciting meeting and making new friends. A lot has to do with what you make of it. Dress up, flaunt, flirt, dance and you will meet other people who share the same interest! The club hosts a wide variety of special events and themed parties. Go to the Events tab on this site and see whats coming up.

 

We are very shy but want to meet other couples?

As a group, our members are friendly and outgoing, but it's a two-way street. You should introduce yourself to the others. If you are unusually shy, ask our Club Hostess or one of our key members that the Hostess can introduce you to, to help make introductions for you. That's why we are here!

Very important!

We are a private social club, not open to the public. It is in this environment that you will not feel any pressure, or be harassed by anyone. Should anyone become annoying or you see a problem in any way, let us know right away and it is dealt with immediately. We have rules and if somebody breaks them we ask them to go. That's one of the main reasons why we are one the safest nightclub enviroments that you will ever be in!